I went to Al-Anon and therapy when I felt confused in my relationship. They were both initially helpful, but I wanted something more. I wanted a program with more 1:1 support. One person just for me. Someone who really knew me and was accessible to me when things got bad. I didn't find that program. Which is why I created this program. A program created because of you.
It Shouldn't Be So Hard
It doesn't seem like a lot to ask...
you want to be loved and respected in your relationship.
Instead you are lied to, manipulated, gaslit and belittled.
Alcohol is killing your relationship.
And you are so tired...
You think there are only 2 options for you...
staying in or leaving this relationship.
You want to stay, you love them and you have sacrificed time and energy on building a life together. You have a family, a home but you miss the affection and connection you had before alcohol became a problem.
And you don't want to leave... it seems overwhelming to start over, you don't want to be alone and staying is easier,
but you do want to be happy.
Leaving means, guilt, disrupting the family, financial concerns and battling thoughts like...
"What if they do get better? Will I be making a big mistake?"
And let's not forget... what will others think?
You are embarrassed and ashamed, like somehow you are failing everyone, including yourself.
But staying means more neglect and emotional abuse.
So you remain stuck in the torment of what do I do?
You don't even recognize yourself anymore.
You've been beaten down and have lost all confidence in yourself
and your ability to make the RIGHT choice for you.
You feel heartbroken, sad and disappointed.
With you, your partner and your life.
You don't want to feel like this anymore.
But what if there was another option?
What if there was a way you could create happiness in this relationship and then from that place, decide the future of your relationship?
What if you didn't have to pick one NOW?
How would it feel if you didn't have to worry about them and just started working on your happiness?
And it's not as hard as you may think...
It's time to join...
A life changing coaching program for
Partners in Alcoholic Relationships.
The goal of Be F.R.E.E. is to help you discover another way to work on your relationship. Right now your thoughts are black and white, stay or go, but neither one feels good for you. So you stay stuck in indecision. BeFree helps you build the tools necessary so that you can create happiness in your life. This happiness is built on a foundation of love, confidence and respect for yourself. Once you establish this self-trust, what you want to do next in your relationship will reveal itself. You will feel happier, less stressed and committed to whatever decision works for you!
It's the BEST option! Confidence and Clarity.
This process leads you directly to feeling happier, healthier and more aligned in what you want from your life.
Program you will learn ...
How to create happiness in your life.
How to learn to put yourself first.
How to build respect in your relationship.
How to clearly communicate with your partner.
How to behave toward your partner when they lie or gaslight you.
How to create boundaries that facilitate love and respect.
How to follow through on boundaries, so your partner takes notice!
How to overcome fear and doubt and build certainty and safety.
How to create self trust to stay true to your values.
How to create the confidence and become an equal to your partner.
How to love yourself and be there for yourself.
How to start pursuing what you want without guilt.
How to renew connections with those that you love.
How to believe in your ability to make changes in your life.
How to change your beliefs about the possibilities in your future.
Finally creating the Life You Want.
Be F.R.E.E. Program
A customized powerful personalized one-to-one coaching program in a judgement free environment.
50 minute weekly coaching sessions on Zoom
24/7 texting or voicemail access for further coaching between sessions using the Voxer app.
Weekly worksheets to help expedite change.
Invitation to the Be F.R.E.E. Private Facebook Group with monthly live trainings from additional certified experts.
Access to live workshops for supplemental training and support from others living in an alcoholic relationship.
Deanna was that person who listened with non-judgmental understanding and made me see for myself what steps I needed to gain peace in my life.
--- Karen B.
I hired Deanna because she was very patient and I felt I could trust her. My life was changed forever. I became a stronger person and got more clear of what I wanted for myself.
— Sophie S.